Why Women Don't Understand MGTOW

There are many misconceptions about MGTOW. I believe the MGTOW concept confuses women. When you bring up the concept MGTOW to most women, you'll hear the following.

1. You're just bitter.
2. You hate women.
3. You just don't wanna grow up.
4. You just can't get laid.
5. Wow, you must have mommy issues.

If you're lucky, you'll hear all five of these at once.


Most women only think of MGTOW from an anti-relationship and anti-marriage point of view and to them, this must be because you hate women or have mental issues.

Lets do a thought experiment since most women love to go shopping. Lets say, I'm a business man, I have a service that is irresistible. The first woman enters my shop, I greet her, I tell her, Hey, I got a great deal for you.

I then explain the business service then tell her she has to sign a contract, everything at this moment sounds peachy and wonderful to the woman.

The woman says, "What is the contract details?"

I then say, well, this business deal has a failure rate of 50%. I as a business man pull out of these deals around 70 to 75% of the time due to unsatisfactory expectations. I alone get to determine whether or not the contract is being fulfilled to my standard.
Upon my backing out of the contract that you have no say in whether or not I'm justified in terminating this contract. You're required to pay me a monthly fee for the rest of your life. Failure to pay this monthly fee, I can have you imprisoned against your will.

What woman would take this deal? That is the deal women are asking men to sign up for in marriage.


Imagine if you, the customer, went seeking advice to an investment broker on wall-street about whether or not you should take a deal like this. The investment broker would tell you, what a stupid deal, who the hell would make such a bad investment with risks that high? The investment broker would tell you the business man whom runs his business that way is a crook, the investment in such a contract is not worth the risk.


In a way, MGTOW is that investment broker on wall-street.  These are men who see mass divorces, they recognize who is paying the child support and alimony in the majority.  These men also realize who is losing access to their children and have decided the investment is not worth their money nor their effort, thus the marriage strike began.


Now, lets move on to other area's of MGTOW that women seem incapable of understanding.

I've talked about the concept of time vs reward in a previous video.  As a single man, you own 100% of your free time. When you enter a relationship, you now have to incorporate someone else into your free time, you don't own 100% of your free time anymore.

As a single man, if I have 10 hours of free time, I can plop infront of my PC and game for 10 hours straight with nobody to nag me. I can go watch a movie by myself, without waiting for someone or having someone tell me no, lets go see this movie, that movie looks stupid. I can spend an entire Sunday watching NFL football, I can gorge out on Mexican food, 3 times a week if I want without someone complaining about wanting Italian.

Why do I bring this up? Time is the most valuable commodity we have, we cannot get time back once its gone. I rather spend this time, the way I want to spend it. I don't have to compromise my free time for the relationship.

Lets talk about hobbies.

Many MGTOW are passionate about their hobbies, most women don't respect a man's hobby or they will undermine it as much as possible.  Many of us are diehard gamers, some are car enthusiasts, some collect things such as baseball cards, comic books, magic the gathering cards, old D&D books. Before someone tells me, well, women are gamers and they have their hobbies as well. My response to that is, you're right but generally speaking, most women aren't as passionate in their hobbies as men are.

Most of the car collectors in the world are men, most of the mechanics who love and work on cars are men. Most of the top gamers in the world who compete at EVO or play at high level leagues such as Major League Gaming are men.  Most of the big comic books, baseball card, magic the gathering or D&D book collectors are men.

Let me refer to you what I mean when women don't respect a man's hobby. Take this story out of Japan.

http://www.japantoday.com/smartphone/view/national/man-demands-a-divorce-after-his-wife-throws-out-his-anime-collection

Here is a man, passionate about his hobby which his wife completely disrespected by tossing it all out. 

Let me tell you a personal story of a buddy that had his hobby basically taken away when he decided to get married. My buddy was a car enthusiast, he had a mustang, he put a lot of work and money to upgrade this thing. His car was his pride and joy, when he got married, his wife told him he needed to get rid of that car, those days of joy riding are over.  She justified this by telling him he needed to buy a more family oriented car such as an SUV. 

Now, the deeper reasoning behind this is that cars are a symbol of status, there is a reason why certain cars are heralded as "Chick Magnets." This is just one of the sneaky ways that women undermine a mans hobbies.

Even if you decide to be with a woman who has the same hobbies as you, chances are she isn't as passionate as you are about them.  Lets take a gamer that spends all of his freetime gaming, he then meets a woman who also likes to game. Conflicts will arise if she only likes to play games casually on her free time and you like to play games with all of your free time. The woman will start complaining that all you do is play videogames and that you never go out.

As a MGTOW, we're not going to compromise our hobbies to accommodate you.  We do whatever we want to do with our free time.

Here is another reason why women don't understand the concept of MGTOW.

Gynocentrism.

Women's wants and needs are always placed first in our society. Women are raised to this standard, most women never seem to ask what men want, or to care about what men want. According to this society, its women, women, women, women and fuck what the men want, men don't matter until it comes time to put blame on them or ask them to pay for something. When a woman finally comes across a MGTOW that puts himself first, it just shatters a woman's worldview.

Women are just so dumbfounded at the fact that she's dealing with a man that doesn't care how big her tits are, how long her legs are, he looks upon women as generic until that particular woman proves otherwise. Other men look upon this woman as a sight of rainbows, sugar, lollipops and chocolate waterfalls.  The man going his own way see's her as bland as a sheet of sandpaper, he see's nothing special about her. The man going his own way doesn't treat her special, he doesn't put her on some pedestal. Other men see a woman of such beauty that they exalt this woman to the status of mythical creatures, such as Kirin or Pegasus. MGTOW's realize a woman's shit stinks just like any other human, he realizes she's just as flawed as anybody else, and this is what women at large are calling misogynistic these days.


What is MGTOW exactly?

Its men that realize the investment into a woman is a terrible one, a financial expert would call it a bottomless money pit, a fools errand. We are men that exist outside of the female lexicon of nice guy and thugs. We are silent observers who are holding women accountable by not playing the game of gynocentrism.

The game of gynocentrism is a game where women and the state will always win. What sane man would invest his time and effort into that?  Even if every law changed tomorrow to give men incentive, it still doesn't change how valuable time is and how he chooses to spend it.