The Cold Hard Truth.

Lets face it, men aren't going back to being protectors and providers, even if every marriage law changed tomorrow.  Many men have embraced their freedom, the bondage of expectation from both women and society are no more. As a man going his own way, the power of real freedom is too strong. No amount of relational companionship a woman could give me could possibly compete with my freedom.

I cannot be bargained with, I will offer zero compromise, there is zero reason to trade in my freedom from all expectation for anyone. If the will to live is the biggest biological imperative humans have, one must assume freedom is the second. I dislike drama, I rather live simple, avoid as much human interaction as possible.

When I talk to people these days, I always hear the same drivel.

Married men who complain about their wife. It usually stems from not enough sex to she's just flat our boring after the kids came. Men that whine about how they have to work 50-60+ hrs a week while the wife either doesn't work or works less than half of the time he does.

Women who complain about not finding the "Right Guy". These women never realize they're the common denominator in all of their failed relationships. While some men are miscreants, assholes, I have a hard time believing the 100's of men you've dated, they're always the problem. Perhaps you should do a better job at screening people. I laugh at you when I hear your stories, deep down, I get a warm fuzzy feeling knowing that many of you simply won't come to the conclusion that it is YOU that has the problem.

These past 60 years taught us a whole lot, hasn't it? Women will go down as the biggest backstabbers in recorded history along with their worshiping white knights and mangina's. Women burned their families to the ground in 75% of the divorce cases since the advent no-fault divorce. Women have pushed their happiness and security at the expense of everyone else in the process. Why should men ever trust women again after what has transpired over the past 60 years?

Let me ask that question again, why should men ever trust women again when women stabbed men in the back the moment they were convinced they didn't need men to survive anymore?  Don't give me that love bullshit either. If the mythical bond of love truly existed between men and women then why are the divorce rates are as they are? These divorce rates didn't materialize out of thin air, did they?  Why did the divorce rates only explode after the state gave financial incentives for divorce knowing women will win the family court settlement in the majority?  

So my question to women is a simple one, why should men trust you again? Why should we put our necks on the line ever again, even if the marriage laws magically did change?  I see no reason to ever trust women again. Women have cultivated this reputation, nobody made women act in this manner, nobody put a gun to their heads. Women acted with agency, they weren't manipulated, tricked, they burned this entire society to the ground out of uncontrollable female hypergamy.

As a man going his own way, I sit atop of a mountain looking down at society watching it burn. All debts must be eventually paid for, no matter how grave the cost is. Men aren't responsible for putting out the fires and rebuilding what women and the state have destroyed. We as men are not going to fix your mess, the more women deny that they had nothing to do with this , the more men are going to switch to the men going their own way lifestyle.

I will remind all women and the legions of white knights and mangina's of reality. There are no flux capacitors to fix what has been set into motion. Keep denying what is unfolding before your very own eyes and writing those "whats wrong with men?" articles.

All debts must be paid, however, this debt won't be fully collected until everything is burnt to ash.