Why I'm Avoiding Relationships with Women.

I'm making this post in regard of what happened this morning.  A few months ago, I joined a penpal site, I made a profile to connect with people across Asia. In the next few years, I plan on moving out there. I am working on a project, if it does well in sales, I should be able to live a simple life out there.

One of the biggest reasons I have narrowed down Asia, specifically the Philippines, Taiwan or Thailand is the fact I love hot, tropical climates. I am from Louisiana, we have around 3.5 to 4 months of cold weather per year. This means we typically see around 7.5 to 8 months of warm weather. I really dislike cold weather, so the climate is a perfect match for a guy like me. Secondly, Louisiana is well know for its seafood, you know, shrimp, crawfish, oyster, bluecrab, fish and I do like to go fishing. 

Right off the bat, I have a lot in common with places in certain parts of Asia. On this penpal site, I specifically state in my profile, I am not interested in dating or pursuing romantic relationships with women, please do not send me a message about relationships or dating.  This morning, I get a message from a 19 year old from Vietnam, pretty cute girl.  She asks why I don't want to get into a relationship with women, she tells me I'm a pretty cute looking guy and that I should reconsider.

I give her my typical redpill talk, I tell her a relationship is out of the question. I'm never planning to marry or have kids. I tell her a relationship is not worth my time nor energy.  She messages me back accusing me of being prejudice against women or that I hate women.

You see ladies, this is why I am avoiding relationships with you like the plague.  I find most women so intellectually lazy.  At no point have I ever mentioned I hate women, but for your increasingly indulgence, let me state just exactly why I am refusing relationships and marriage.  I won't even talk about the legal ramifications marriage exposes you to as a male.

I for one just don't find most women interesting. I find most women I talk to these days offer nothing worthwhile, I can find better activities to do than to listen to the constant negativity most of you bring. I find most women aren't interested in intellectual conversation or debate. For the record, I'm not accusing women of being stupid. I am saying that most women I come across just don't really care about that kind of stuff.  I have never hated women, infact, my facebook page has lots of women friends and guess what? I look at their status walls and see nothing of interest. I see pictures of food, drinks, some music clips, showing off tattoos, complaining about either work related or personal drama. I see whining about being alone, etc.


I look at a friends instagram every now in then, I talk to her every other few days, all she has is pictures of food, drinks, products she bought, or self poses, nothing interesting at all, no interesting scenery, just a whole lot of boring stuff.  If you're not going to be offer intelligent discussion, you're worthless to me, no matter how hot you are or how freaky the sex you dole out could be.  There is nothing you could offer me that I don't already have access to. I rather go seek a prostitute for a quick fuck and chuck than enter any relationship. I don't really care who wants to judge me on that either.  The truth of the matter is that most women are just intellectually lazy, interested in very boring and vapid stuff.  I on the other hand am interested in what goes on in the world, I am interested in talking about gender issues. I find most women get so bent out of shape when you start talking in truths and that is where we fundamentally separate our paths.

Calling someone a misogynist is just so intellectually lazy to me. I have a damn good reason to avoid relationships and marriages. Going my own way has never been about hating women, it was about furthering my never ending thirst for knowledge, it was the quest to find out what happened to society, how did we go from point A to point B.  The question I have obsessed about since taking the redpill is what happened? How did we get to this point?  I now have such an answer on what I believe to be what happened. Now I can safely pinpoint how this will play out if things continue on as they are.

Now things can change, but if things don't, I have a pretty good idea how this will all play out. I digress, lets look at what several of my female friends did on their 4th of July. So I've just looked at several facebook walls from several female friends. All I see is the drinks they drank on their 4th of July holiday, the food they ate, several random pictures of other foods, a couple complaining no good guys exist or they had to spend the 4th alone with no boyfriend. Like I said, I just don't find most women interesting beyond potential sex, so there is really nothing in it for me.

I just don't see most women contributing anything worthwhile, looks and sex is not good enough, I am on cloud 9, most women are on cloud 2, there are 7 clouds of distance between us.  Awhile back, Barbarossa made a video called, women, the new leisure class. In the video, he states that men need to start cultivating women's utility by only bothering with women who offer something to you other than sex and negativity.

I agree but I'll even add to what he says when he mentions women who don't offer nothing but sex shouldn't be surprised when that is all they're used for, a simple fuck and chuck he says. There is a large amount of surplus of 35-45 year old single, mid-grade attractive, no kids, women about to hit the market over the next few years, a simple search on Okcupid brings up quite a few of these women. Many of them will be forced to lower their standards, these are women who have been placed out of the market. I think a lot of these women will be desperate, a woman's greatest fear is to die alone. I actually see things looking up for us men who decided to go our own way. Yes, there will be plenty of semi attractive older women who have to face reality in the next few years, many of them slept around their entire 20's and thought they could have it all. These same women thought they could just snap a finger and find a man to marry post 30's. These women never figured they could possibly be placed out of the market.  If a man going his own way wants sex without attachments, this huge resource of women will always be on demand as the younger women will always have run away, out of control hypergamy and delusions of grandeur. These older women will have to lower their hypergamy which means it will be open season for guys who are men going their own way minded men. In essence, what is the rush? The truth of the matter ladies, is men don't need relationships. If I really wanted to engage in that activity, it wouldn't be hard to get laid or engage with a hooker. Let me pose this question again for you ladies out there, why would I seek out some boring relationship, full of shit-tests and dealing with all your bullshit for something I don't need?

As time goes on and the marriage strike becomes worse and worse, it will become increasingly easy to have sex with as many women as you want. The successful men that don't want older women, will target the 18-24 year old girl. A "good stable man" as many women would call it, will set the market for younger women. So for men going their own way, there will be many chances to have as much sex as you want.


I hate to be the bearer of bad news women, most of you, you don't offer anything but sex and unfortunately for you, that isn't good enough for me. Maybe one day you'll finally reach cloud 9, even in the event you do reach cloud 9, that still doesn't mean I'll give up my freedom. I think its time for women to start facing reality.  The fact marriage and birth rates are dwindling at fast rates should tell you all the story you refuse to believe.